..:: Be a woman ::..

Sambil-sambil duk dengaq lagu Kpop, buat homework, and balas mesej kat Whatsapp tetiba rasa nak online FB. Then aku end up jumpa post ni. Luqman San ni aku tatau sapa. Tapi dia kerap jugakla post benda-benda yang bercerita pasal hati dan perasaan. Aku tak follow dia. Kawan FB aku share benda ni. And post ni pasal kawen. Jangan harap la aku nak post kat FB perkara-perkara yang mengundang kontroversi sebegini. Aku ni invisible mid 20 lady. Well.. Apa yang aku nak cakap is, kita sefikrah Encik Luqman San! At least for this post..

Don't marry a boy to lead you.
Don't marry a girl to complete you.

Be a man to a woman.
And be a woman to a man.

Because marriage is not for boy, nor to a girl. Marriage requires maturity and patience.

It is different how a boy handles a woman and how a man handles a woman. It is different how a girl reacts to a man and how a woman reacts to a man.

Boy and girl run from problem. While man and woman face and solve the problem.

Don't get too excited about early marriage stories in instagram. Because most of them show only the beginning and beautiful side of marriage. Not the hell side.

Read the facts from Mahkamah Syariah instead of Instagram. Divorces rate boost up from year to year.

" Kerap bertengkar "
" Masalah kewangan "
" Pasangan tak matang "

You don't marry someone to get divorced.
You marry someone to commit. Thus, you needed a preparation. Change yourself from a boy to a man. A girl to a woman.

Don't rush guys.
Marriage might be a sweetdream. But it could also be a nightmare. You'll determine it.

There's so much more to learn.
There's so much more to observe.
There's so much more to commit.

Commit to your study.
Commit to your parents.

If you can't commit to what you have, what makes you think you can commit to another ?

Be a man.
Be a woman.

-Luqman San

Yeah memang dalam dunia ni banyak benda takkan kekal macamtu ja 24 jam.

Takdak orang akan kekal handsome/cantik 24 jam.

Takdak orang akan kekal bijak 24 jam.

Takdak orang akan kekal taat 24 jam.

And of course, takdak orang akan kekal bersemangat waja nak gapai cita-cita 24 jam.

But if you talk about commitment..

Well you have to do what you have to do.

Because you, yourself knows that the path will never be smooth sailing from the very beginning.

Allah has brought you here.

Be a woman.

Fight for His sake.

Have faith in Him.

He will never leave you alone, insyaAllah.

-Mimie Oppa,

A legendary lady who possessed few manly traits.